When you think about ways to save your marriage I doubt that NLP makes it onto your list.

Chances are you haven’t even heard about NLP, little less know what it is.

If you have heard about it chances are you think it is slick double talk used by slimy sales people to sell you something you neither want nor can afford.

Yes, I very much doubt that NLP makes it onto your list of ways to save your marriage.

I only had this epiphany today.

You see, I have been living and breathing NLP for the best part of 20 years.

When I don’t use it to help my clients let go of anger, overcome depression or release outdated grief I train student to become NLP gurus.

So I sometimes forget that most people haven’t even heard about NLP or how it can magically change their relationships and every other aspect of their life.

Come to think of it, nobody has ever signed up to my NLP training to save their marriage, though the training did save the marriages of several students, helped others find their dream partner and transformed their life in ways they couldn’t even imagine before they started the training.

So what exactly is NLP?

There are many technical definitions but I won’t bore you with those.

In a nutshell, I would say that NLP is the closest thing to a “Science of Happiness” that I have ever seen.

NLP is a bunch of tools, techniques and processes that allow us to change our emotional state (or someone else’s) in seconds or minutes.

Yes, I said seconds or minutes. That’s not a misprint and it’s not hyperbole either.

That is why NLP training has been a mainstay in Fortune 500 companies, the US military and elite sports for decades.

Having breathed this stuff for over two decades I often forget that the average person still hasn’t discovered this groundbreaking technology that has transformed countless lives and has been the bedrock of untold numbers of corporate success stories.

So how exactly can NLP save your marriage?

Well the details obviously vary from case to case depending on the situation but learning NLP will make you a happier person, a better communicator, a more understanding and empathetic partner and it will make you more charismatic without even trying.

Don’t believe me? Find someone who has studied NLP and ask them.

If they don’t agree with my statement above then they studied at the wrong place.

You see the key is that you will learn the skills to become the master of your own emotional domain. You will no longer blame others for how you feel.

You will develop a profound understanding of what causes your partner and others to go into an emotional tailspin at times and you won’t take it personal, because it has nothing to do with you.

At first this profound change may well unnerve your partner and your friends, but very soon they will want what you have.

So next time you are looking for a way to save your marriage, just think NLP (Never Loose Partner) and give me a call.

You’ll be glad you did.